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Coming Out Section
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By: Richard A. Isay
June 1997
224 pages
Paperback
ISBN: 0805053158
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Review:
Richard Isay represents a therapist with an empathetic voice whose own
struggle with sexuality extended over a period of many frustrating years.
Fortunately, he understands that given the choice no man would have
chosen to be gay. Therefore, there is no psychoanalytical cure. The only
alternative is for men to find self-acceptance within their particular sets of
circumstances. Isay wisely advises men not to make rash judgments about
coming out. Instead, he argues that there are many reasons for the closet,
particularly those constructed by heterosexually married gay men. This
book is a must read for all therapists, both straight and gay. It is also a
must read for anyone who wants to understand the problem of
self-acceptance for gay men.
BearBook: #006 Entered: January 20, 1999 by dwc
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By: Richard A. Isay
October 1990
159 pages
Paperback
ISBN: 0380710226
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Review:
A collection of papers on gay male psychodynamics.
BearBook: #007 Entered: January 20, 1999 by dwc
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By: Bret K. Johnson, Ph.D.
June 1997
208 pages
Paperback
ISBN: 1572240644
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Review:
A practicing gay psychologist helps men struggling with their sexual
orientation come to terms with themselves and with coming out. Johnson
sensitively leads the questioning man through an admittedly challenging
process of self-assessment, offering a wealth of suggestions for finding
support, developing strategies for coming out to others, and building
healthy new relationships with families, friends, lovers and partners.
BearBook: #008 Entered: January 20, 1999 by dwc
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By: Peter Cashorali, Robert H. Hopcke
March 1997
181 pages
Paperback
ISBN: 0062513095
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Review:
Using the magical and mythic language of classic stories from around the
world, Fairy Tales takes familiar myths and folktales and turns them into
stories about men coming out, learning to trust themselves, looking for and
finding love, facing AIDS, and helping those they love.
BearBook: #011 Entered: January 20, 1999 by dwc
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By: Brian McNaught
May 1997
240 pages
Paperback
ISBN: 0312156162
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Review:
A prominent gay writer helps those who have recently come out of the
closet re-examine some of the basic issues of human existence, such as
sex, family, love, family, and community.
BearBook: #032 Entered: January 20, 1999 by dwc
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By: Betty Fairchild & Nancy Hayward
1998, 3rd ed.
288 pages
Paperback
ISBN: 0156006057
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Review:
This pro-gay/pro-family book is meant to help parents
come to grips with with child's non-heterosexuality.
While I didn't agree with everything the book said,
it's still says a lot that parents would need
to hear. I doubt it would magically change
the minds or feelings of homophobic parents, but the
book provides a way for communication to start.
BearBook: #033 Entered: December 29, 1998 by RAD
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By: Michelangelo Signorile
June 1996
Paperback
ISBN: 0684826178
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Review:
An author and columnist offers a sensitive, no-nonsense, supportive,
fourteen-step program for coming out, as well as exercises, meditation
notes, and anger checks and accounts of the experiences of lesbians and
gays from around the nation.
BearBook: #035 Entered: January 20, 1999 by dwc
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By: Mel White
April 1995, rep. ed.
347 pages
Paperback
ISBN: 0452273811
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Review:
Until Christmas Eve 1991, Mel White was regarded by the leaders of the religious right as
one of their most talented and productive supporters. He
penned speeches for Ollie North, was a ghostwriter for Jerry
Falwell, worked with Jim Bakker. What they didn't know is
that Mel White--evangelical minister, committed Christian,
family man--is gay. In this book, White details his
twenty-five years of being counseled, exorcised,
electric-shocked, prayed for, and nearly driven to suicide
because his church said homosexuality was wrong. His
salvation--to be openly gay and Christian--is much more than
a unique coming-out story.
BearBook: #040 Entered: January 13, 1999 by dwc
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