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Alec Baldwin Doesn't Love Me and Other Trials of My Queer Life

By: Michael Thomas Ford
January 1998
224 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 1555834310

Review:
Nobody is better at capturing the ups and downs of queer life than Michael Thomas Ford, author of the popular "My Queer Life" syndicated column. This original collection takes on everything from show tunes and Martha Stewart to the perils of dating and the son of God himself, all some of the things that make life very queer indeed.

BearBook: #001  
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August 24, 1999 by dwc


Are You Ready?

By: Rik Isensee
April 1999
232 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 1555834590

Review:
A guide to celebrating midlife from the author of the national bestseller Love Between Men.

BearBook: #002  
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August 24, 1999 by DWC


The Bear Handbook : A Comprehensive Guide for Those Who Are Husky, Hairy, and Homosexual, and Those Who Love 'Em

By: Ray Kampf
2000
142 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 1560239972

BearBook: #052  
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July 25, 2000 by dwc


The Bear Handbook : A Comprehensive Guide for Those Who Are Husky, Hairy, and Homosexual, and Those Who Love 'Em

By: Ray Kampf
2000
142 pages
Hardcover

ISBN: 1560239964

BearBook: #053  
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July 25, 2000 by dwc


Bears on Bears

By: Ron Suresha
2002
308 pages

ISBN: 1555835783

Review:
In 25 candid discussions, Bears on Bears brings together 57 contributors from around the world, from a rich variety of perspectives and backgrounds. With lighthearted playfulness as well as serious analysis, these Bears (as well as some nonbearish Bear-lovers) describe themselves, their lives and loves, their sense of masculinity, and their flourishing community-cum-culture. Widely excerpted in the gay media, Bears on Bears is the first interview book ever (gay-themed or otherwise) compiled primarily from online interactions. This groundbreaking collection of voices gathered from in and around the edge of this unique culture is both entertaining and enlightening.

Several of the interviews were serialized on Resources for Bears and some are still available in the archives (look for articles written by Ron Suresha). More info available at bearsonbears.com.

BearBook: #061  
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November 8, 2001 by cg


Becoming Gay: The Journey to Self-Acceptance

By: Richard A. Isay
June 1997
224 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 0805053158

Review:
Richard Isay represents a therapist with an empathetic voice whose own struggle with sexuality extended over a period of many frustrating years. Fortunately, he understands that given the choice no man would have chosen to be gay. Therefore, there is no psychoanalytical cure. The only alternative is for men to find self-acceptance within their particular sets of circumstances. Isay wisely advises men not to make rash judgments about coming out. Instead, he argues that there are many reasons for the closet, particularly those constructed by heterosexually married gay men. This book is a must read for all therapists, both straight and gay. It is also a must read for anyone who wants to understand the problem of self-acceptance for gay men.

BearBook: #006  
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January 20, 1999 by dwc


Being Homosexual; Gay Men and Their Development

By: Richard A. Isay
October 1990
159 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 0380710226

Review:
A collection of papers on gay male psychodynamics.

BearBook: #007  
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January 20, 1999 by dwc


Fairy Tales: Traditional Tales Retold for Gay Men

By: Peter Cashorali, Robert H. Hopcke
March 1997
181 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 0062513095

Review:
Using the magical and mythic language of classic stories from around the world, Fairy Tales takes familiar myths and folktales and turns them into stories about men coming out, learning to trust themselves, looking for and finding love, facing AIDS, and helping those they love.

BearBook: #011  
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January 20, 1999 by dwc


Finding the Boyfriend Within: A Practical Guide for Tapping Into Your Own Source of Love, Happiness, and Respect

By: Brad Gooch
June 1999
192 pages
Hardcover

ISBN: 0684850400

Review:
Part memoir, part self-help, Gooch's book offers gay men an inspirational guide. Reviews are mixed, but it's flying off the shelves...

BearBook: #012  
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August 24, 1999 by dwc


In September, the Light Changes: The Stories of Andrew Holleran

By: Andrew Holleran
June 1999
304 pages
Hardcover

ISBN: 0786864613

Review:
A collection of literary short stories treating a variety of subjects

BearBook: #019  
Entered:
August 24, 1999 by dwc


Kurt Cobain and Mozart Are Both Dead

By: Tim Barela
1996

ISBN: 1884568041

BearBook: #054  
Entered:
December 31, 2000 by cg


Love Between Men: Enhancing Intimacy and Keeping Your Relationship Alive

By: Rik Isensee
May 1996
223 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 1555833624

Review:
Booklist called this "a welcome addition to practical gay literature". David McWhirter and Andrew Mattison, authors of The Male Couple, say it's "must reading for all male couples", while Michael Shernoff of the National Lesbian/Gay Health Foundation, says it's "bound to become a classic".

BearBook: #024  
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August 24, 1999 by dwc


Now That I'm Out, What Do I Do?

By: Brian McNaught
May 1997
240 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 0312156162

Review:
A prominent gay writer helps those who have recently come out of the closet re-examine some of the basic issues of human existence, such as sex, family, love, family, and community.

BearBook: #032  
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January 20, 1999 by dwc


Reclaiming Your Life : The Gay Man's Guide to Love, Self-Acceptance, and Trust

By: Rik Isensee
July 1997
242 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 1555834221

Review:
This book is an excellent way for the gay male to let go of the baggage in his life that is the basis for self-destructive behavior. Gay males all too often fail to live up to their God-given potential because we carry baggage of growing up in repressive families, schools, and communities. Isensee identifies the possible sources of this baggage and then invites his readers to work it through for themselves with a seriesof questions at the end of each chapter. Hence, this is a book to be worked through and the process can be liberating or as the title states "reclaiming". Worth the read and the reflection.

BearBook: #036  
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August 24, 1999 by dwc


Sex and Spirit: Exploring Gay Men's Spirituality

By: Robert Barzan
144 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 0964538407

Review:
Sex and Spirit is an exciting and provocative collection of essays. James Arimond discovers a 12th century monastic community based on man-to-man love. Laurence Hermsen reveals the shamanic foundation of The Wizard of Oz, and invites us all to follow the Yellow Brick Road. Buddhist priest Tundra Wind offers Zen as a tradition in which gay men can flourish. Michael Clark offers an ecotheology for our time. Joseph Kramer explores a healthy sexuality and how it brings healing to the whole person.

BearBook: #037  
Entered:
January 20, 1999 by dwc


That's MR. Faggot to You: Further Trials From My Queer Life

By: Michael Thomas Ford
June 1999
248 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 1555834965

Review:
The author describes the tribulations and preoccupations in his life. Follow-up to Alec Baldwin Doesn't Love Me and Other Trials of My Queer Life.

BearBook: #041  
Entered:
August 24, 1999 by dwc


The Unofficial Gay Manual: Living the Lifestyle or at Least Appearing to

By: Kevin Dilallo, Jack Krumholtz, Kevin Delallo, Robert Hickey
November 1994
226 pages
Paperback

ISBN: 0385474458

Review:
The Official Preppy Handbook for the gay male animal, this fresh, funny, hip and thoroughly engaging book tells what it means (and takes) to be a gay man in America today. With essays, tests, lists, and charts, the Manual includes items like "10 Things Not to Say When Telling Your Mother" and a going out guide to major cities. Photos and drawings.

BearBook: #042  
Entered:
January 20, 1999 by dwc


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